Flying Solo: How to travel alone with confidence
I’ve traveled solo only six times in my life, but I’ll admit that the first time was nerve-wracking. Heading to the airport, trying to follow unfamiliar signs, and navigating a foreign language can feel overwhelming—but it shouldn’t stop you from trying. If you’ve ever been curious about exploring new cultures or gaining independence, solo travel is one of the best ways to do it. You don’t need friends or family by your side, because traveling alone pushes you to grow, problem-solve, and trust your own abilities. All you really need is preparation and a good checklist. If you struggle with anxiety, start by visiting countries closer to home, and always keep your location shared with trusted friends or family. Even though the first trip can be scary, I promise you it’s worth taking the risk.
Step 1: Choose Your Destination
The first step in solo traveling is choosing a country that genuinely interests you. Why are you drawn to this place? What do you hope to learn? Do you have loved ones there who can help you get familiar with the area? Always research your destination beforehand—its culture, language basics, transportation, and the cities you plan to visit. International travel websites, YouTube vlogs, and advice from locals or friends can be incredibly helpful. It’s okay to ask questions, and it’s okay to be curious about the place you’re going.
Step 2: Book and Budget
Make sure you know which airport you’re departing from and where you’ll be staying. Always check reviews and ratings for hotels, Airbnbs, and hostels. Budget for flights, accommodations, food, and activities. Tools like Excel, PocketGuard, and EveryDollar can help track your spending. If you want to save money, you can also use travel points or credit-card rewards, such as those from the Capital One Venture card, the American Express Platinum, or the Chase Sapphire Reserve.
The Kamerlengo Fortress in Trogir, Croatia
Step 3: Pack Smart
What you bring should depend on your destination and its season. Write down a packing list and think realistically about how much you’ll need for the length of your stay. I tend to overpack—and honestly, overpacking is better than forgetting essentials—but it’s still best to focus on what you truly need. Consider the activities you plan to do: will you need clothes for a night out or gear for hiking and outdoor adventures?
Step 4: Enjoy the Experience
Take photos, visit local restaurants, try new activities, and document your journey. Traveling to a new country is one of the most memorable experiences you can have. Embrace the adventure, meet new people, and enjoy creating stories you’ll carry with you for a lifetime.
Step 5: Stay Safe and Take Care of Yourself
Even the most exciting trip can be stressful if you’re not prepared for challenges. Share your itinerary with someone you trust, and keep in touch regularly. Use apps for navigation, translation, and emergency contacts. Learn about local customs and be aware of areas that may be unsafe. Solo travel can sometimes feel lonely, so remember to take care of your mental and physical health. Schedule breaks, stay hydrated, and give yourself time to rest. A prepared traveler is a confident traveler—and that confidence makes every experience richer.
